The stitches of life

Wednesday, January 12, 2005

Ramblings 

I hate having to title my entries--I am SO not that creative LOL ;). But since this is just for me I guess I shouldn't worry about it too much. I'm really not sure how much I'll post in here, I've tried off and on my whole life to do some sort of diary/journal routine but it never seems to stick. Maybe this time it will since I type much faster than I write, but then again maybe not.

I titled this blog The Stitches of Life because I'm an avid cross stitcher so obviously I'm going to write about that. I'm also going to write about life though--thus the slightly cheesy title ;). I guess I should state in here my stitching goals for the year: I want to finish the baby sampler I'm working on (3/4 finished) and to enjoy my stitching. I resolve that this year is going to be guilt free stitching--I'm not going to worry if my WIP's spend another year without being finished. As long as I'm stitching and enjoying it I'm going to consider my goal met :). I'm also not going to tell people when I start a present for them--that way I won't stress over getting it done in time. I guess I should have done that with the baby sampler, but on the other hand if I hadn't told her I was making something for her I'd probably never finish it ;).

I'm also trying out a new system of rotation this year--I'm going to try stitching on a different piece each night leaving the weekends free to work on whatever (or nothing ;) that I want. I'm hoping this will motivate me to work on the baby sampler--it's much easier if I know I only have to work on it 1 or 2 days a week as opposed to a longer amount of time. So far I'm doing okay. There have been a couple of days where I haven't stitched at all, but in the spirit of GFY I'm not worrying about it ;).

I guess that's all for now, hopefully I'll be back again!
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Tuesday, January 11, 2005

Am I a bad mom? 

I received a belated Christmas letter today and it made me wonder--am I a bad mom? The reason it made me wonder is that it's one of those letters where the kids are all wonderful, involved in all kinds of sports and voluteer activities all while being outstanding students. The mother coaches a couple of those teams, runs in marathons, writes and has a part time job, all while being a single mom to 4 kids. As a family they do all sorts of cool things, skiing, mountain climbing, hiking, etc. Our family does none of that. Granted, my kids are much younger than hers (her oldest is a senior in high school), but I found myself wondering if they'll ever be like that. And why should they? Their father and I certainly aren't. That's not to say that we're lazy people who lie around and have no hobbies or intellectual pursuits, quite the opposite. But our life is much quieter--we are homebodies at heart.

So I guess I've just answered my own question--I'm not a bad mom, just different than her. Just like everyone else is different from me. I need to stop measuring my parenting skills or my kids achievements according to what others do because we are not them and their way wouldn't work for us. My kids are smart, happy and healthy with an active curiosity about all sorts of things--isn't that the most important thing?

Wips--Baby Sampler, JN's With my Needle, Mira's Rose of Sharon, Dimensions Enchanted Cottage, L&L's Celtic Spring, SB's Sophie's Roses, Mystery Garden
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